Saturday, May 28, 2022

Burrows Working Tree.....Letters From New York Help Solve the Mystery of Emy Burrows....


The Statue of Liberty 1890 from the Library of Congress
Emmy Burrows would have seen the iconic symbol of freedom on her way into New York Harbor in 1890. 




     I have three more letters that were written to the Burrows family in Grass Valley, California. These are the last letters from the packet of letters that I discovered at Cousin Skip's house this past summer. 

  The first letter was written in 1893 to my Great Grandmother Vere Burrows, who was 11 years old at the time. It was written from New York and was was signed by E. Bucher. It was a sweet, short  letter written to a young niece clear across the country.  

  The last two letters were written to my Great Great Grandfather Alexander Burrows in 1905 and 1906, and unfortunately arrived too late as the author of the letters, Hermann Bucher, did not know that Alexander had passed away in 1904.  In these letters, Hermann referred to his wife, Alexander's sister, as "Emma". These letters were also written from New York, New York. 

    Who was E. Bucher?  

  

Page 1 front, letter begins on right hand side. The closing of the letter is on the left, signed by E. Bucher...
 
Page 1 back


  

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  (Page 1 front, right hand side)


                                                                 383 10th St.

                                                                  March 20th "93"

My Dear Niece,

                    Words cannot express how happie [sic] glad (crossed out) I was to receive your letter also photo which I can never tire looking at.  You look very much 


(Page 1 back, right side)

 like your cousins some Fanny Porteus and Jane White.  I would [?] think you so like your papa. [?] your fair head, I must say you make a lovely picture.  I only wish I could have the pleasure of seeing you personaly [sic].  I wish you would come to New York for a while.  I would be so glad to see you[.] please tell papa send me his picture he is promising it [to me?]

(Page 1 front, left hand side) 

this [?] time when I get [mine?] [taken?] I will send it to you.  please write to me soon & many thanks for your photo.

With love to papa & all thy[?] family 

I remain your fond Aunt E. Bucher


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   This letter was written by someone I initially thought was Elizabeth  Butcher, based on information I discovered when researching Adam Burrows.  In an 1896 Irish newspaper article describing the court action for Adam Burrows his next of kin were listed as... "Thomas R. Burrows, residing in South America, John Burrows of St. Louis USA, Alexander Burrows of California, Jane White, wife of Elliott Adam White of Whitehall, Dromahair, Elizabeth Butcher Burrows, wife of Haman Butcher of New York, and Margaret Porteus, the wife of Robert Porteus of Clara"....

   Hermann Bucher had initially written to Alexander Burrows in 1905 to inform him that his wife, Alexander's sister, Emma, had passed away. He was obviously the Haman Butcher in the article. Who was Emma?  Was she the E. Bucher that signed the above letter? Was she also the Elizabeth in the newspaper story?  The newspaper had  obviously gotten  Hermann Bucher's name wrong (referring to him as Haman Butcher).  So, the possibility of getting Elizabeth's name wrong was strong also. I suppose Ismena could be construed as Elizabeth by a lazy reporter or court recorder.  Or, Haman used Emma as his nickname for Elizabeth. 

  Here was the mystery. I thought it was interesting that the article did not mention an Ismena or Emy Burrows, who I knew had gone back to America in September of 1890.   When I looked at the 1889 will of Alexander Burrows of Drum, I could not find mention of an Elizabeth or Emma Burrows.  300 pounds was willed to Esmenia or Amy (that is how these names were transcribed; they referred to Ismena or Emy), but an Elizabeth was never mentioned.  I knew from previous letters signed by Ismena/Emy that she did indeed exist, as she wrote about going back to Ireland from America to claim her inheritance. Who was Elizabeth?  I was working on the theory that she was another Burrows sister, living in New York with her husband Haman, and was not listed in the will for some reason.  Who was Ismena/Emy?  I was working on the theory that she was a separate Burrows sister who was a spinster taking care of her father until she left for America. Sometimes theories get in the way of reexamining what clues you have right in front of you....

   As I looked more closely at the above letter (as in enlarging certain letters and words), it became clear to me that the writing in this letter matched the writing in the letters written by Ismena/Emy in 1890.  Could Ismena/Emy and Elizabeth/Emma be one in the same person??  



Emy's signature written in 1890.





E. Bucher's signature written in the top letter 1893. 






Emy's handwriting of "Jane White" in 1890



E. Bucher's handwriting of "Jane White" in 1893




   These are just a few samples comparing handwriting styles. Many more letter formations are similar.   I believe that Esmenia/Amy/Ismena/Emy/Elizabeth/Emma are one in the same person.  The only mention of Elizabeth is in the newspaper article, which also got her husbands name wrong. She may have never gone by Elizabeth.  

  So, the mystery of what happened to Emy after September 1890 has been solved! 

  Now that I knew who Haman Butcher really was, I could go back and research Hermann Bucher in New York. I found a marriage record for a Herman Bucher and an Emma Burrows.  Emy had gone back to New York, married Hermann Bucher on 7 November 1892 as Emma Burrows in Manhattan (Ancestry New York, New York US Extracted Marriage Index 1866-1937) and wrote this letter to her niece Vere Burrows on March 20th of 1893.  She signed it E. Bucher. Emma Bucher. Or, did she still think of herself as Emy? Ismena was a name from her past; possibly Emy was too. Emma was her new identity in a new country. 

  

  The next two letters help finish the story of Emma Burrows Bucher.  


Front 
                                                                                       417 East 25th Street N.Y.

                                                                                                  Dec. 26th '05

        A. Burrows, Esq.

                        Grass Valley, Cal.


          Dear Sir,

I am very sorry to let you know, that my wife, your sister Emma, died last Monday, Dec. 14th---Had I known your address, I would have let you know before, but I only found letters of you lately.  She had a complication of diseases, and although I had two physicians 


(back, right hand side)

...attending to her, I could not save her life.
  I lost my best friend and mourn her deeply.   Whether or not she had any money belonging to her I don't know; we never spoke about that.  I certainly can not find any papers or Bank Books to that effect.  If you should be able to give me any information, I would thank you very much.  By all means do I expect to hear from (left hand side) you soon, you may please advise me, what to do. 
   Meanwhile I remain most respectfully yours

                     Hermann Bucher

Although I often times persuaded Emma to write to you or some of her relations, she positively refused to do so, in fact she acted very queer lately--do not blame me for it. 

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  The address for Adam White was written on the left hand side of the front page of the letter.  The handwriting could be Vere Burrows Hansen's handwriting.  She probably wrote to the Whites informing them of Emma's death, or wrote back to Hermann as he requested addresses for the Whites in his next letter. 

Hermann Bucher wrote again several weeks later....

Front with envelope 

                                                                                                    417 East 25th st.
                                                                                             N.Y. Jan. 14, 1906

Mr. A. Burrows
     Grass Valley, Cal.

Dear Sir,

  About two weeks ago, I had the sorrow task of informing you of your sisters death and up to this time I have waited in vain of some line of you.
  Will you kindly let me know the address of some of the White's?  I can

   .....not communicate with any of them as I am ignorant of their whereabouts.
  It being only a simple favor I am asking of you, I earnestly hope to receive answer soon

                                         I remain
                                    yours most respectfully
                                       Hermann Bucher

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      Judging from Emy's past letters she was not happy with how her father or her family treated her.  She left Ireland for America for the first time in 1889 shortly before her father's death.  After spending some time with Jane at Whitehall back in Ireland while she claimed her inheritance in 1890 she went back to New York as soon as she was able.  Jane White even wondered if Emy was planning on getting married when she went back to New York.  Did Emy already know Hermann from her first trip to America?  She married Hermann in 1892, and they were married for 13 years.  He called her Emma and she was his best friend.  She was around 45 years old when she died.  Whatever the truth was, I hope that Ismena/Emy/Emma finally found the freedom and happiness she was so desperately looking for in New York.  

  It was up to Hermann to let Alexander know of Emma's death. He had no way of knowing that  Alexander was no longer alive as it appeared that Emma stopped corresponding with him sometime before her death.  Hermann's letters ended up in the hands of Vere Burrows Hansen, my Great Grandmother.  Vere took care of all the paperwork and correspondence relating to the death of her father Alexander in San Francisco in 1904. She lived in Grass Valley with her husband John Hansen, so the letters would have eventually been delivered to her by the post office.  

  I believe I have found a death date for Hermann Bucher.  He may have died on July 27, 1907 in New York (Ancestry New York, New York, US Extracted Death Index, 1862-1948).   He may have been from Switzerland.  There were several Hermann Buchers living in New York at the time which makes confirmation difficult.  The 417 E 25th Street address is now the home of Hunter College and its dormitories.  It is located on Manhattan Island, within several blocks of the East River. It must have been a beautiful little neighborhood at the turn of the century. 
  
  When I combined Ismena/Emy/Emma into one person, everything fell into place. There was no Elizabeth.  The will made more sense, the newspaper article made sense and the letters made sense. I want to thank my DNA cousins for helping me piece together this puzzle. This has been an ongoing group project that I am sure will continue to add more to the Burrows tree in the future!
  
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This is part of the working tree.  I am just focusing on my GG Grandfather and his siblings here, as I am combining Ismena and Elizabeth into the same person.  There are now 7 Burrows siblings, children of Alexander Burrows of Drum and Frances "Fanny" Elliott. 

1. Margaret Burrows  (married Robert Porteus) of Clara/Claragh Irish
*daughter Frances "Fanny" Porteus Graham 
*daughter Jane Elizabeth "Jenny" Porteus Golden/Goulden

2. Jane Burrows (married Adam Elliott White) of Sligo.  The White family lived at WhiteHall (Whitehall), County Leitrim, Ireland.
 *son Robert Alexander White born at Whitehall, County Leitrim, Ireland.

3. Adam Burrows (was living in Drum in 1890; lived at the workhouse in Sligo sometime after that. )

4. Alexander Burrows (married Elizabeth Jane Hurd in America) my G G Grandparents; they lived in Grass Valley, California.

5. John Elliott Burrows (came to America) m. Margaret O'Leary in St. Louis. Children Frances Burrows Riley and Thomas A. Burrows.

6. Thomas Rutledge Burrows (bequeathed house and land in Drum and was to look after Adam per will of 1889.  Left for America shortly after his father's death).  m. Georgina Foster b. 1871 d. 1890.  Per marriage index Ireland, Civil Registration of Marriage, she married Thomas in 1888 in Ireland.  This relationship was also mentioned in Emy's letter of 24 June, 1890.  The death of Georgina and their two children were mentioned in Jane White's letter of 4 December 1890.

7.  Ismena  "Emy" "Emma" Burrows (spent time in America in 1889 but went back home to Ireland to claim her inheritance, per letters written in 1890. Left for America again in September of 1890.) Per letters from New York, New York in 1893, 1905 and 1906 Emy Burrows married Hermann Bucher and went by Emma.  She and Hermann married 7 Nov. 1892. Emma died on 14 December 1905. 



Thursday, May 26, 2022

Burrows Working Tree...Jane White Writes to Her Brother Alexander Burrows on December 4th, 1890 from WhiteHall





European Robin. Robins appear in 99% of Irish gardens in winter according to birdwatchireland.ie
Photograph by Leigh Rebecca; shared on the FB site History of UK and The Republic of Ireland 5 December 2019


    
    This is the last letter in a series of letters written by Jane White to her brother Alexander Burrows.  It was written at the beginning of December 1890 and was very melancholy in its tone. Jane summarized what had been happening with the family in Ireland since the death of their father, Alexander Burrows, in August of 1889.  There was no good news to report and Jane described the family losses and misfortunes since his death.  She reminded Alexander of how grieved she was over the thought that she might not ever see him again in her lifetime.  Perhaps she saw a robin in her sleeping garden that winter and was reminded of loved ones lost or far away. Robin sightings are still said to bring comfort by letting us know that lost loved ones are close by...
 


Page 1 Front.  The letter begins on the right hand side. "My Dear Brother...It grieves me to think..."
 


Back. 

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  (Page 1 front, right hand side)


                                                                      WhiteHall

                                                                       Dec 4th

My dear Brother

   It grieves me to think that we may never meet on earth as you [suggest?] but it is one great [consolation?] & hope [certain?] that we all shall meet in that [celestial?] home where we never 


(Page 1 back, left hand side)

more shall part [,] away from toil and trouble [.]  I got Toms address[.] I wrote to him about 5 weeks ago[.] no one knows whither he will come home or not I don't know[.] where is Adam[?] he was in the poor house[.] his legacy is doing him little good[.]  Moulsdale wont allow 

(Page 1 back, right hand side)

any one to interfere with him[.]  poor Emy is not certain what she will do[.]  I wanted her to stay here until the winter would be out[.] so did [R.?] Porteus want her to stay with himself[.] Margaret I think did not care about her for leaving father[.]  some thought she would get married when


(Page 1 front, left hand side)


she returned to [W?] [?]---you did not send your photograph here so I'll be expecting it along with some of your childrens[.] you made a [mistake?] Tom has no trouble his oldest son died at the age of 4 months[.] the next was a [premature?] birth in which his wife died[.] now excuse me for taken up so much of your time! I remain your ever fond sister J. W. 


(Text on Page 1 right side vertically overlaying main horizontal text)

You ought to advise Tom to come home if it was only to look after Adam  I send you his address


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   As always, brother Adam was at the forefront of Jane's thoughts.  Jane was still pleading with Alexander to contact Tom and remind him of his obligations towards his brother.  The Reverend Moulsdale had complete control over Adam's future as no one was nearby to watch over his wellbeing. Why was Adam in the poorhouse when he had money from the will to guarantee his upkeep? Jane once again sought help from her brother in America. In future posts I will try to  delve more into Adam's story. 

   In this letter we learn the outcome of Tom's marriage.  Sadly, his oldest son, his wife and another baby had just recently died.  It looks like Tom handled the situation by leaving the country.  As Drum House was to be his per the will of 1889, Tom took it upon himself to sell the property sometime in the early 1890's.   More research is needed into the land deeds and sales of the time to find out what exactly happened.  What happened to the proceeds of the sale? Did Tom take it with him to America and eventually South America?  It seemed like the Burrows wealth in terms of land and properties was slowly dwindling to nothing by the turn of the century. 

   Emy had left her father several months before his death to go to America and make her own way.   Jane seemed to think that their older sister Margaret disapproved of this decision. Emmy came back to Ireland only to claim her inheritance.  Margaret's husband Robert Porteus made the offer  to have Emy come and live with them at Clara, but Emy had other ideas.  She got on another ship and went back to America. 

   These letters are a priceless and very personal window into my Great Great Grandfather's family.  I feel profoundly thankful that they survived intact for over 130 years.  The letters have provided clues and have confirmed relationships so that the Burrows Family Tree has expanded with more certainty.  With the help of DNA cousins, the tree continues to grow as we put together a broader picture of the lives of our ancestors in Ireland.  There is so much more work to be done!  


Next post...one last letter from Elizabeth Burrows Bucher written to my Great Grandmother from New York in 1893.  Stay tuned!

  

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The following tree is our "working tree".  It will change as we do more research, fit more pieces together and verify family members.  This is the basic tree as of now. 



Alexander Burrows of Carrowcrin (based on his will of 1834) father to....

*
Dr. Thomas Burrows 
(son Alexander Burrows, possibly the A. Burrows that witnessed Margaret Collis' death in 1890).

Margaret Burrows m. Thomas Collis

      Johnston Burrows m. Mary Moysten  parents of  Mary Anne Burrows (m. George Foster) parents of Georgina Foster (see Thomas Burrows below)

               Alexander Burrows of Drum (based on his will of 1889) m.  Frances "Fanny" Elliot, youngest daughter of Adam Elliott (based on  the Memorial of a Deed of Settlement 1848, original marriage around 1835) parents of.....

*

1. Margaret Burrows  (married Robert Porteus) of Clara/Claragh Irish
*daughter Frances "Fanny" Porteus Graham 
*daughter Jane Elizabeth "Jenny" Porteus Golden/Goulden

2. Jane Burrows (married Adam Elliott White) of Sligo.  The White family lived at WhiteHall (Whitehall), County Leitrim, Ireland.
 *son Robert Alexander White born at Whitehall, County Leitrim, Ireland.

3. Adam Burrows (was living in Drum in 1890; lived at the workhouse in Sligo sometime after that.  )

4. Alexander Burrows (married Elizabeth Jane Hurd in America) my G G Grandparents; they lived in Grass Valley, California.

5. John Elliott Burrows (came to America) m. Margaret O'Leary in St. Louis. Children Frances Burrows Riley and Thomas A. Burrows.

6. Thomas Burrows (bequeathed house and land in Drum and was to look after Adam per will of 1889.  Left for America shortly after his father's death).  m. Georgina Foster b. 1871 d. 1890.  Per marriage index Ireland, Civil Registration of Marriage, she married Thomas in 1888.  This relationship was also mentioned in Emy's letter of 24 June, 1890). 

7.  Ismena  "Emy" Burrows (spent time in America but went back home to Ireland to claim her inheritance, per letters written in 1890. Left for America again in late 1890.)

8. Elizabeth Burrows (came to America) and married Hermann Bucher in 1892 in New York; was called Emma (based on letters written by Hermann Bucher)

Saturday, May 7, 2022

Mothers, Daughters and Granddaughters.....Anna Lever King, Emma King Hayes and Margaret Elizabeth Hayes in 1918.



   In honor of Mother's Day this year I thought I would share these sweet pictures from the King/Hayes Album.






  The picture on the left is of Anna Levers King (my great great grandmother) and my grandmother, Margaret Elizabeth Hayes, born on November 7th, 1917. The picture on the right is of Emma King Hayes (my great grandmother) and my grandmother.  These pictures were taken in San Francisco, probably by my great grandfather Lester Hayes.  My grandmother must have been around 6 months old, so this picture was taken in the late spring of 1918.  She was the last of the three girls born to Emma and Lester in San Francisco. 









  Let's keep it going!  Emma King Hayes Van Duzer on the left (my great grandmother.."Nana"), my grandmother Margaret Hayes Hansen (Betty) on the right, Margaret Hansen Boothby seated (my mother) and then there's me!  Picture taken in the summer of 1962. 


   Happy Mother's Day!

Thursday, May 5, 2022

Burrows Working Tree....Jane White Writes to Her Brother Alexander Burrows on the 6th of August, 1890 from WhiteHall








A Victorian writing box/Pinterest.  I can imagine Jane sitting down with her writing box or at her writing table to quickly pen this short letter....


    "I write in reply of yours which I got this morning.  In three days time Father will be 12 months dead......."


Page 1  front.  Jane's letter begins on the right hand side.
 
Page 1 back.  



  This is a short note written from Jane Burrows White to her brother Alexander Burrows on August the 6th, 1890.  We can extrapolate the date as she describes the moment she sat down and wrote this letter..."In three days time Father will be 12 months dead".....Alexander Burrows of Drum passed away on the 9th of August, a year earlier, in 1889.  This letter is one in a series of letters written to Alexander by his sisters Jane and Emy after the death of their father. Jane was 52 years old when she wrote this letter.  She enclosed it with the letter written by Emy (see last post).  The letter was written from her home in WhiteHall, County Leitrim, near Tullycooley. 

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  (Page 1 front, right hand side)

                                                WhiteHall
                                                 Aug 6th

Dear Alex,

   I write in [reply or receipt?] of yours which I got this morning[.]  In three days time Father will be 12 months dead[.] poor man did not [get?] much care in his last sickness[.]  I am not very well myself although [in?] good health

(Page 1 back, left side)

at the sea[.]  I enclose this letter in Emys[.] she says She will [get?] a copy of the will from Mousdale[.]  if so, I'll send it to you[.]  she [places?] great confidence in Moulsdale[.]  a great many people do not like him[.] now dear Alex I often

(Page 1 back, right side)

think of your features but cant call to mind what or who you are like[.]   please send me your photograph[.] I can send you one of Fathers if you like when I am writing again[.]  I,ll send you a copy of the will the day I get it[.]  Mousdale is away[.]

(Page 1 front, left side)

tom is coming home[.] I think Ill send you his letter[.]  [if?] you like to get the Independent paper if so I could send it to you often[.] you know Drum House is greatly [tossed?] up[.] Emy was saying she would go up and fix it or clean it for Tom[.] ever your fond sister Jane White

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  Jane spent a few weeks at Rosses Point at the end of June that summer.  It seems her visit to the sea did her some good, but she pointed out that she was still not well on her return. 

  Again, we get a picture of the circumstances at Drum House.  Tom was away in America, but expected back soon to take over his responsibilities. Adam was left alone and taking his meals at William Crawford's neighboring farm.  In Emy's last letter she described taking an account of the table linens.  Was she possibly taking care of the chaos and disorder at Drum House?  I can only imagine what the state of the house and lands were after a year with only Adam at home.  The house and land were eventually sold out of the Burrows family, and remained in the Craig family until 1986. 

  



Irish Eyebrights bloom between July and September on the grasslands and cliffs of Ireland. Perhaps Jane had the chance to see these blooming around her home at WhiteHall that summer. 
Photo via http://ow.ly/KajlA


                                                                    

Tuesday, May 3, 2022

Burrows Working Tree...Emy Burrows Writes to Her Brother Alexander Burrows August 6th of 1890


   "I was in the linen room keeping account of the table linen...."

via /unsplash

  This is another letter written by Emy Burrows (Ismena Burrows) to her brother Alexander Burrows.  I believe it was sent with a letter written by Jane Burrows White to Alexander on August 6th, 1890.  This letter has pages 1 and 2 missing, as there is no page with a greeting or date and so begins on page 3.   Emy seems to be in mid thought, as she describes her keeping account of the table linen before she goes on to talk about their fathers' will.  As the letter goes on, we get a sense of her discontent, her anger towards her father and  brother Tom and the uncertainty of her future. As an unmarried spinster (she was around 30 years of age at this time) she had good reason to worry.  Was her three hundred pounds going to be enough to see her through? Was her health going to hinder her ability to earn a living?  She was dependent on her male relatives as well as the Reverend Moulsdale (the executor of the will) to make sure details in the will were taken care of.  To add to her worry was the uncertain fate of her older brother Adam, who was not able to take care of himself and would eventually end up in the Sligo  Asylum.  

The transcription follows the original letter....


Page 1 front.  The letter begins on the right side of the page and appears to be the actual page 3 of the entire letter.  
 
Page 1 back

Insert to letter front
Insert to letter back.  She signed her letter with the name Emy instead of Ismena.  



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 (Page 1 front, right side)


3+ 
I was in a linen room keeping account of the table linen[.]  You know what I mean[.] Father left three hundred in bank in my name.  I had to come home to see after it. got it all right. I hoped to go back to American again but I'm in bad health.  The doc says I have got a weak heart. 
  Tom is expected home this month to Drum.  Mr. Molsdale sent him 40 lb to bring him home[.] As far as I know there is nothing about the Manorhamilton property in the will except that he willed it to Adam & that he had to do, as the

(Page 1 back, right side)

law compelled him do so. He thought to sell it at one time but would not be allowed its only 20 lb a year[.]  you know your grand fathers daughter has half the property & I believe its ain't lawful[.]  she should on account of her father and mother not been married[.]  Mousdale has all fathers papers. You should see after them, as he may go away[.]  he has been to America before and may go again[.]  After I came home I sent him your address[.] he said your friends refused him for it. I gess they did too. 4+

(Page 1 front, left side written vertically)

No one saw it but Mrs. Porteus[.] I had it by heart.  Poor Adam is greatly failed[.] he is an old man, but got very [worse?], since Fathers death[.]  He sleeps in Drum alone[.]  poor fellow he asked me to stay with him when I went to see him, but that I dare not do.  I [?] do call to Drum now [.] I only suffered what my poor mother did.  I believe there was only 2 persons present when Father made his will they were W. Crawford and Rev Mousdale[.]  some say he was not in his right mind to make a will, that he [done?] as they told him[.] Molsdale & Tom were 

(Page 1 front, left side)

very great [?] when Tom was in Drum[.] my opinion is Father was not in right mind months before he died.  He was ill only a few days & he was calling me.  I hope he is happy now after all his troubles in this world [?] is too bad to be [?]  I could often be married but he would not hear of me doing so.  but had me for a slave & would not allow me even a servant. 
Mrs. White has quite a family 10-6 sons-4 girls[.] Her eldest son is in New York.  book keeper there[.] 2 more in Sligo in [stores?], [their?] father don't drink this 12 month back. 

(This next entry may have been an insert to the above letter.  It is signed at the end by Emy.  The coloring and the folds are the same.)

(Insert to letter, front)

All the Burrows are dead only Mrs. Collas.  She lives in Carrowcrin with A. [Burrows?] Jenny [Jane] Porteus is married to Billy Golden.  [Fanny] is still in Clara.  I hope you enjoy good health yourself, also your wife & family[.]  Please send me your picture.  [Now?] about [?] going to Sligo to live as you suggest[.]  I would not be alive to be idle & my money would not last [?] to be buying everything I'd require.  You know I have no one to expect anything from now.  I am left to myself. a lonely 'bird' alone[.] friends are very good but don't trouble too often or dont be in [their?] power. I'll either take a situation at home 

(Insert to letter, back)

Or return to America.  I liked it well & the ladies I worked for liked me first rate.  I'm afraid you will not be able to read this scribble you must excuse it.  I was in Clara last week.  They did not get the money. [?] [?] as yet.  Did Moulsdale write to you.  I did not see him since I got your letter.  He is away in England.  When I get a copy of the will I'll send it to you.  Write when you get this[.]
   I must conclude. With warmest love to you & yours
      From your [affectionate?]
        Sister Emy

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    Notes and thoughts on this letter...

  Tom was given the responsibility of taking care of Adam after Alexander Burrows died in August of 1889.  He was in America when Emy wrote this letter, and was expected to come home with his expenses being paid for by the Reverend Moulsdale.  Tom was in America as early as 1884, per the letter that John wrote to Alexander on March 18, 1884. John mentioned that Tom originally left because he was not getting along with either his father or Emy. Tom did go back to Sligo, as he married his cousin Georgina Foster in 1888. She died sometime in 1890, so Tom probably decided to return to America and forgo his responsibility to his brother.  By 1896 he was in South America and Adam was in the Asylum.  I can find no other records for Tom after this. 
  
 Emy mentioned in her last letter how badly Tom had acted towards herself and their father, and yet he inherited a larger portion of the estate than all the others. Was it due to pressure put on Alexander by Tom and the Reverend Moulsdale? Emy thought so. There was obviously a great deal of tension between Emy, Tom, and their father. You have to wonder what Tom did with his part of the inheritance. 

  Emy mentions the Manorhamilton property.  In my last post I looked at the deed and memorial for this property.  It stated that the property had to be passed down to the children of Alexander Burrows after his death, which he stated to be the case in his will. The property originally belonged to the Elliott family and was given as a marriage settlement when Alexander married Fanny sometime in 1835.  My DNA cousins and I are still not sure what Emy was alluding to when she mentioned "your grandfathers daughter has half the property and I believe it ain't lawful.  She should on account of her father and mother not been married."  She may be referring to Adam Elliott (the grandfather) and Frances Elliott Burrows (the daughter) or more plausibly another daughter who had the other half of the property rights. There is a possibility of an  Eliza White who may have been a Roman Catholic. Her husband, Samuel Hamilton, was of the Church of Ireland (Protestant). He was a witness to Adam Elliott's death.  Fanny was probably deceased by 1889, so the possibility that there was another sibling is probable. This Eliza may have even been a daughter of Fanny's sister.  This is still a mystery, and more research is needed.  Whatever the situation was, Emy was not happy with it.  At least Adam had a steady income from his half to pay for his care. 

  You have to feel for poor Emy.  Did she at one point want to be married?  Was she pressured to stay home and look after her father and Adam? She calls herself a slave and was bitter because she was not even allowed a servant.  The work load in taking care of a household the size of Drum House would have been heavy for one person.  Was her father wary of spending any extra money? Was the economy bad enough that he was having a difficult time making ends meet? Was she trying to get away from her brother Tom?  We don't know for sure. We do know that in May of 1889, several months before her father's death, Emy got on a ship and went to America to find work of her own. She only came back to claim her inheritance.  I found an Outward Passenger List for the ship Anchoria that departed Ireland the 12th of September, 1890.  It lists a 30 year old Ismena Burrows, headed for New York looking for work as a seamstress.  It was most likely Emy. I am still searching for her after 1890. I hope she eventually found some happiness in her life. 

UK and Ireland, Outward Passenger Lists, 1890-1960 for Ismena Burrows Ancestry.com
Emy's age compared to the other girls on the ship is striking. (ages on the far right). 


 Who is Emy referring to when she says "Mrs. White has quite a family.."?  It is possibly the family of her sister, Jane White (married to Adam White), whose oldest son Robert Alexander White may have been in New York at the time.  The Whites, the Elliotts and the Burrows intermarried several times and we are still trying to sift apart family lines.  Adam White's sister was Ismena Jane White Frazer who came to America with her son and they settled in Poughkeepsie, New York in 1885.  It is still not clear who this Mrs. White is. I share DNA with family members from this line. 

  "All the Burrows are dead only Mrs. Collas"...Emy was referring to Margaret Burrows, sister of Alexander Burrows of Drum.  She married Thomas Collis in 1838.  


Marriage Licence Bonds record for Collis, shared by KKelley. 




Margaret Collis died on December 25th, 1890,  4 months after Emy wrote her letter. Her nephew, Alexander Burrows, was present at death. He was most likely the son of her brother Dr. Thomas Burrows. Emy says Margaret was living in Carrowcrin with A. Burrows, which would explain his presence at her death. Shared by KKelley.


  Jenny Porteus was the daughter of Margaret Burrows Porteus, oldest sister of Alexander Burrows, Jane Burrows White, Thomas Burrows, Adam Burrows, John Burrows, Ismena "Emy" Burrows and Elizabeth Burrows Bucher. 
  
 Jane Elizabeth ("Jenny") Porteus married William Golden (Goulden) around 1880.  I share DNA with family members through this line. Jenny's sister was Frances "Fanny" Porteus, whom Emy mentions as still living in Clara. Fanny married John Graham in late 1890.  I share DNA with family members from this line also.  

  Where was Clara?  In August of 1890 Fanny Porteus was still living in Clara according to Emy. 

Claragh Irish map from townlands.ie


  According to  DNA cousins, Clara, or Claragh Irish, was located between Tobercurry and Collooney.  This was where Robert and Margaret Porteus had their home.  



The home of Robert and Margaret Porteus, and daughters Jenny and Fanny.  It remained in the family until 1925.  Picture shared by AMichalia. 

The house in Claragh was sold in 1925.
Sligo Champion 28 Nov 1925
Shared by RODriscoll


  That is the last letter I have that was written by Ismena, "Emy" Burrows.  She wrote it while staying with her sister Jane White at Whitehall in the summer of 1890.  Where was she keeping an account of the linen?  It could have been at Drum House on one of her visits to see her brother Adam.  The house was sold in the early 1890's, so this could have been in preparation for a sale.  It also could have been at Whitehall.  I just don't know for sure, without the context of the first part of the letter.  What I do know is that Emy was able to make her feelings very clear to her brother in far off northern California, which probably seemed a world away.   I can only hope that they kept in touch, especially after Emy went back to America.  If they did, sadly, there is no record left. 


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The following tree is our "working tree".  It will change as we do more research, fit more pieces together and verify family members.  This is the basic tree as of now. 



Alexander Burrows of Carrowcrin (based on his will of 1834) father to....

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Dr. Thomas Burrows 
(son Alexander Burrows, possibly the A. Burrows that witnessed Margaret Collis' death in 1890).

Margaret Burrows m. Thomas Collis

      Johnston Burrows m. Mary Moysten  parents of  Mary Anne Burrows (m. George Foster) parents of Georgina Foster (see Thomas Burrows below)

               Alexander Burrows of Drum (based on his will of 1889) m.  Frances "Fanny" Elliot, youngest daughter of Adam Elliott (based on  the Memorial of a Deed of Settlement 1848, original marriage around 1835) parents of.....

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1. Margaret Burrows  (married Robert Porteus) of Clara/Claragh Irish
*daughter Frances "Fanny" Porteus Graham 
*daughter Jane Elizabeth "Jenny" Porteus Golden/Goulden

2. Jane Burrows (married Adam Elliott White) of Sligo.  The White family lived at WhiteHall (Whitehall), County Leitrim, Ireland.
 *son Robert Alexander White born at Whitehall, County Leitrim, Ireland.

3. Adam Burrows (was living in Drum in 1890; lived at the asylum in Sligo sometime after that.  )

4. Alexander Burrows (married Elizabeth Jane Hurd in America) my G G Grandparents; they lived in Grass Valley, California.

5. John Elliott Burrows (came to America) m. Margaret O'Leary in St. Louis. Children Frances Burrows Riley and Thomas A. Burrows.

6. Thomas Burrows (bequeathed house and land in Drum and was to look after Adam per will of 1889.  Left for America shortly after his father's death).  m. Georgina Foster b. 1871 d. 1890.  Per marriage index Ireland, Civil Registration of Marriage, she married Thomas in 1888.  This relationship was also mentioned in Emy's letter of 24 June, 1890). 

7.  Ismena  "Emy" Burrows (spent time in America but went back home to Ireland to claim her inheritance, per letters written in 1890. Left for America again in late 1890.)

8. Elizabeth Burrows (came to America) and married Hermann Bucher in 1892 in New York; was called Emma (based on letters written by Hermann Bucher)